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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

❤️

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Seth Christenfeld's avatar

I am a fellow fan of bar-and-book dining; when I was living in the city, one of my favorite things to do of a Sunday was mosey over to La Pecora Bianca on 50th and 2nd and enjoy brunch and coffee whilst reading whatever I was reading at the time.

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Philippe du Col's avatar

Lavender never truly fades. It just goes to lavender heaven.

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Kim Farnham's avatar

Aaahhhh...thank you for taking me back (via your footnotes) to the halcyon days of my youth, when I had a subscription to Spy Magazine. One of my favorite recurring bits was Graydon Carter's referring to a certain NYC real estate "tycoon" as a "short-fingered vulgarian." 🥰

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

I was this close to tossing that into the story, but I figured, with my readers, that was probably carrying coals to Newcastle.

Of course, it’s an immortal phrase.

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Sharon Villines's avatar

A word I'd forgotten, "vulgarian". 1929 was the peak usage. And "short-fingered" nails it down because he is so sensitive about it, and it still follows him. But why hasn't the song followed him?

Short-Fingered Vulgarian

Bona fide barbarian

A wannabe authoritarian

Short-Fingered Vulgarian

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bjkeefe's avatar

Just wonderful story-telling.

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

Thank you!

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Leah's avatar

"Apostrophes and old movies" + stories of New York City = one of the my favorite places in this Substackian realm. What a lovely respite! Please do share any other treasures you discover in your trove. PS. My mother taught me to appreciate Fred Astaire. She swore that he and Ginger Rogers danced everyone through the Great Depression. What a time!

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

OK, I have another good letter story (different box of papers), and I’ll tell it tomorrow.

It’s even nicer!

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Ron Goldberg's avatar

Did Ms. Pleshette order the lobster thermidor with her coffee?

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

🫢

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Jill Swenson's avatar

What a payoff for the drudgery of cleaning out mismanaged files. Score!

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Anne Crumpton's avatar

Thanks for the memories. Going thorough old boxes, pictures and books seem to be way stations on my journey through life.

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

It's partly sweet, partly sad, partly a lot of things. For me, at least. Really, two hours of it and I'm absolutely worn out.

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Anne Crumpton's avatar

I am with you. I've got 91 years to try to clean up so others don't have too. I'm glad I've learned to laugh.

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

Good for you, Anne! On all fronts: the organization, the laughing, the whole deal.

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COLETTE WILLIS's avatar

How lovely. And I never spell rhythm without thinking "rhythm has your two hips moving."

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Laurie Fusco's avatar

Love this . Thank you .

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Jane Fisher's avatar

You are so wise to be especially careful while sorting through old papers. I once, in my haste to organize, threw out an old how-to manual for a thermostat in an apartment that I moved out of 30 years ago and have regretted it ever since ;)

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

I’d be bereft! And maybe cold!

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Kemmer's avatar

I have two extensive collections of correspondence to go through, and, yes, there is only so much one can revisit at one time. But how wonderful to have a (typewritten!) record of those long friendships!

I love the footnotes -- always. But I wish there were a way to sidebar them so that I didn't have to keep scrolling back and forth between the body of the text and the next footnote. Proof again, I guess, of the superiority of print over digital.

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

If you’re reading on your computer screen and let your cursor hover over the footnote number, the footnote materializes for easy reading and dismissal.

If you’re reading on your phone (or at least this is how it goes on my iPhone), you can tap the footnote number and the footnote pops up (and then can be X’d away).

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Kemmer's avatar

Thank you! Brilliant!

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Louis Kersten's avatar

I'm assuming there was no Lobster Newburg on the menu to accompany Ms. Pleshette's coffee.

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

🫢

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Elizabeth McCracken's avatar

I love this so much (though I am never afraid to dine alone at a table).

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

You have more moxie than I!

❤️

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Judy Johnson's avatar

I love these snippets of your life and am so glad you turned to writing!

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Benjamin Dreyer's avatar

Thank you! Me too!

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